I provide what I consider to be a very unique style of dating and love relationship coaching. The bulk of my approaches are based on what I have put into practice in my personal life. Many approaches I have developed myself.
My relationship technology is alive and growing. I’m continually developing new or improved approaches. What my clients experienced a year ago has been significantly enhanced over that time period.
I’m like many of you. I spent many miserable and clueless years trying to make sense of love relationships.
My life has been about finding my way out of the mess and discovering the secrets that bring happy, lasting love. I certainly don’t have all the answers, but my 25 years of work has given me some secrets that few have access to.
Not putting my parents in an unkind light, I did have a difficult time in childhood. The things I learned in childhood about self-love, loving others, healthy communication, and healthy relating were mostly inadequate.
I had a lot of unlearning to do. I realized in early adulthood that I would get nowhere in life if I didn’t address my defective childhood learning and pain. That unlearning and re-learning has been what my life has been about. As I’ve grown, healed, and learned, I’ve been in a position to pass along my wisdom to others.
Although I’m professionally trained, I became disenchanted with the mental health profession as early as undergraduate school in the late 70’s. As well-intentioned and capable as some in the profession are, I believe that overall the mental health profession is failing the general public. It can also be said that the general public is failing to adequately support the mental health system.
In 1982, I had a series of life-altering spiritual experiences that, among other things, inspired the development of my work.
Since my spiritual awakening, I have been coaching people in their family relationships and love relationships. I have also developed and led classes and workshops on the topics of: relationship strategies, healthy communication, emotional health, spirituality, and personal empowerment.
More about Bill White: http://www.thehealthycouple.com/