Bill White M.A.

I provide what I consider to be a very unique style of dating and love relationship coaching. The bulk of my approaches are based on what I have put into practice in my personal life. Many approaches I have developed myself.

My relationship technology is alive and growing. I’m continually developing new or improved approaches. What my clients experienced a year ago has been significantly enhanced over that time period.

I’m like many of you. I spent many miserable and clueless years trying to make sense of love relationships.

My life has been about finding my way out of the mess and discovering the secrets that bring happy, lasting love. I certainly don’t have all the answers, but my 25 years of work has given me some secrets that few have access to.

Not putting my parents in an unkind light, I did have a difficult time in childhood. The things I learned in childhood about self-love, loving others, healthy communication, and healthy relating were mostly inadequate.

I had a lot of unlearning to do. I realized in early adulthood that I would get nowhere in life if I didn’t address my defective childhood learning and pain. That unlearning and re-learning has been what my life has been about. As I’ve grown, healed, and learned, I’ve been in a position to pass along my wisdom to others.

Although I’m professionally trained, I became disenchanted with the mental health profession as early as undergraduate school in the late 70’s. As well-intentioned and capable as some in the profession are, I believe that overall the mental health profession is failing the general public. It can also be said that the general public is failing to adequately support the mental health system.

In 1982, I had a series of life-altering spiritual experiences that, among other things, inspired the development of my work.

Since my spiritual awakening, I have been coaching people in their family relationships and love relationships. I have also developed and led classes and workshops on the topics of: relationship strategies, healthy communication, emotional health, spirituality, and personal empowerment.

More about Bill White: http://www.thehealthycouple.com/

Events with Bill White M.A.

ADVANCED ANGER AND ARGUMENT SOLUTIONS: How to Dissolve Conflicts and Emotional Upsets, and Restore Love, Play, and Connection
January 28, 2017

Our week long retreats are hosted from Saturday to Saturday. All of our retreats follow a similar agenda: Breakfast, lunch and dinner are provided by Philia. We are an all inclusive spiritual retreat center. All meals are optionally vegetarian or vegan. Saturday: Pick-up from San Jose airport, welcome to our center, visit of the property, our vision and review of the week program Sunday: Workshop day 1 Monday: Activity day (ex. hiking in the rainforest) Tuesday: Connection process in the morning and Completion process in the afternoon between attendees, volunteers and facilitators Wednesday: Workshop day 2 Thursday: Workshop day 3 Friday: Leisurely day at the Playa Blanca. Relaxation and more connection Saturday: Check out Do you want to deepen the magic in your relationship? The key to deepening the magic is probably not what you think it is. Being ineffective at navigating anger and conflict is likely the number one killer of relationships. Don’t let anger and conflict become a barrier between you and your love.   Learn skills for finding the source of, and the solutions for: Anger and arguing Resentment, clamming up, feeling distant Defensiveness, not listening, withdrawing Unkind or disrespectful interactions Abusive attitudes and behaviors   Learn how to: Self-process to resolve your emotional…